Be Hard, Not Cold.

Source:  http://goo.gl/yZD8x

Chat Proclamation

What you share with the world is what it keeps of you

Well I know my death will not come
'Til I breathe all the air out my lungs
'Til my final tune is sung
That all is fleeting
Yeah, but all is good
And my love is my whole being
And I've shared what I could
But if you give a little love, you can get a little love of your own
Don't break his heart

Well my heart is bigger than the earth
And though life is what gave it love first
Life is not all that it's worth
'Cause life is fleeting
Yeah, but I love you
And my love surrounds you like an ether
In everything that you do
But if you give a little love, you can get a little love of your own
Don't break his heart
Yeah if you give a little love, you can get a little love of your own
Don't break his heart

Well if you are (what you love)
And you do (what you love)
I will always be the sun and moon to you
And if you share (with your heart)
Yeah, you give (with your heart)
What you share with the world is what it keeps of you

Anger

my father just disowned me.. anyone want a spare daughter?

The response:

Source:  http://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/jnkzp/six_months_ago_my_father_disowned_me_after_i/

Rescuing Hug

Source:  Kyrie and Brielle Jackson
Photo by:  Chris Christo of Worcester Telegram and Gazette

what is the most fucked up thing you used to think as a child?

Source:  http://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/iwe4o/whats_the_most_fucked_up_thing_you_used_to_think/c2773qq

we can still be friends

Feeling emo? Let me help...

Commitment

Source: http://xkcd.com/310/

Old best friends

as a response to the above entry, DiggerW wrote:

Growing up, we had a dog (Digger) and a cat (Gus). Both were healthy, and for years they were best friends. My dog always wore a collar, and I guess we took for granted the sound that it made when he was walking around. Anyway, years after his death, in the garage we found his collar and my brother picked it up... it made the sound that surprised us all with its sheer familiarity -- it was just as if Digger was walking into the room. Not three seconds later, Gus the cat tore into the garage, excitedly looking for his old best friend.

I love my pets, but I've never cried nearly as hard over them as I did that day.

Source:  http://www.reddit.com/r/aww/comments/i3979/an_eye_on_you/c20kq8l

Help: I'm in love with my best friend, I want to tell her.

 From Captain Throwaway:

I'll try to keep this short.

I've been acquainted with her since the 9th grade, but really started to get to know her in the 11th grade, and we became best friends. But, this whole time, I've been head-over-heels in love with her, and don't know how to tell her. It's really, really, bad. I've not really had many relationships before, but she is, sometimes literally, all I can think about. She's had boyfriends and whatnot (has one now), and I just don't know what to do; I can't get her out of my head.

I know I should move on if she's not interested, but I don't know how to talk to her about it (assuming I have the balls to). I've turned down prospective flings/relationships the past two years or so because of her, while she was dating other guys. Looking back on it now, I sort of feel like an idiot.. :/

We graduate from high school tomorrow.

I don't know when to talk to her about it.. I start at one University June 27th, and she starts fall at another university across the state a little in the fall, so there's some time to talk between now and then.

Hah, I even had this convoluted plan to email her "as an anon friend," telling her that this fake email person has noticed how much Captian_Throwaway likes her, and that it might be ruining his chances of other relationships, maybe trying to get her to confront me. I'm so lame lol.

I just feel like I need to get off my shoulders and out of my head before I start college, or it'll affect me there just like it did in high school.

I don't know! Help me, please!

Response by Lieutenant TR:

Captian_Throwaway, please for the love of God read this. I made my own throwaway to respond to you. Reddit has helped me out occasionally with stuff like this, and so here's my attempt to pay back everything.

I was in your exact situation about a year ago. I'm soon to be a soph in college. Met a girl in 9th grade. I was a fat loser she dated douchebags I became her friend I hid my face when she and bf kissed it out near me and suffered in silence etc. I had intrusive thoughts to the point of seeking counseling about her. I visualized smashing her bf's face when I went to the gym to drop forty pounds in six months. I put songs that reminded me of her on my workout playlists. I went with her as a platonic buddy to a ton of shit.

That sounds pathetic and it was. God I am glad it's over now.

So I know what the fuck you're talking about. So please please for the love of God listen to me when I say SHUT THE FUCK UP

Just shut the fuck up. When that little voice says "YOU HAVE TO TELL HER" just keep your goddamn fucking mouth zipped.

Here's why. You need to put a little distance from the situation and ask yourself a couple of questions. Why do you want to tell her? Is it because you hope something will happen? If I read your post correctly she's not single. Do you think she's going to break up with her boyfriend for you now? Even if she becomes single tomorrow and suddenly decides to date again--do you think she's going to go for you right before she heads off to college?

The real reason you want to tell her is because it's something really important to you that you want to get off your chest and get some kind of closure for your ideal. But the problem is that it doesn't exist outside of your own head.This girl in all likelihood thinks of you only as a friend--and how good of a friend is someone who you're keeping such a huge secret from? You need to let this go.

Hah, I even had this convoluted plan to...

OH FOR FUCK'S SAKE ARE YOU 12? No. You're 17 or 18. Or hell maybe 19. It's time to man the fuck up about this. You're going to college. There will be other girls. I repeat THERE WILL BE OTHER GIRLS. And you will get over this if you keep it inside your head. But if you let it out you'll have to live with the consequences.

Overview: Been where you are but not anymore. SHUT THE FUCK UP.

how to build a lasting relationship

relationships 2 - waves

CHOSE THIS or CHOSE THIS

Source:  http://s3.amazonaws.com/data.tumblr.com/tumblr_ljdihiBEAa1qb56mko1_1280.png?AWSAccessKeyId=AKIAJ6IHWSU3BX3X7X3Q&Expires=1302419762&Signature=FKFsbjCzLYHcsX%2Bah643OvDJtjk%3D

relationships 1 - being linear

source:  http://cowbirdsinlove.com/1098

OR CHOSE THIS.

Who's Gonna Save My Soul

I'm Still Here

Dr. Seuss on Love

SOURCE

When he died, his wife commissioned this sculpture as an expression of her love for him

Sculpture by Peter Schipperheyn, "Asleep"

Source:  Mt Macedon Cemetery in Victoria, Australia

Husband's reward after drinking the night away

A man woke up in the morning with a terrible hangover, and could not remember what he had done the night before.

On the table next to the bed he saw two aspirins, a glass of water, and a note from his wife, saying "Honey, there is a hot breakfast waiting for you in the kitchen. Love you lots!

He looks around the room and sees that it is in perfect order; spotlessly clean. He quickly notices that the rest of the house looks extremely clean.He decides to get up and stumbles into the bathroom where notices he has a very swollen and very black and blue eye.

After shaving, he goes to the kitchen as he passes the hall he sees that the mirror is broken.

At this point he is very perplexed.

He realizes that his son is in the kitchen and is eating his huge breakfast. The man asks the son "What happened last night, why is the house clean, and my eye black?"

The son replies "Well, last night dad you came home drunk off your ass, stumbled into the mirror, broke it, and hit your head on the bedroom doorknob.

Mom helped you to bed, and as she was trying to get your pants off you kicked her away, and said "get off me lady, I'm married!"